I need to vent

Discussion in 'Nonsense Anything Boards' started by Special Ed, Jul 16, 2013.

  1. Special Ed

    Special Ed The Four Season Angler

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    Call me crazy
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    So I'm working 2 jobs now since we have amassed a significant amount of debt and the housing market crash screwed us out of 60% of the purchase price of our home.

    My full time job is 6am to 3pm, pay is good & lucky for me it's more of a use your brain type job. My part time job is just down the street at a freight LTL Co. working 3:30pm to 9:30pm on the dock. Pay is decent but the work is in the elements, no breaks, stressful, and dirty manual labor work which is fine with me if I need to do it but it makes for a long day.

    Needless to say I'm exhausted at the end of the day.

    Anyway, a month ago I was approached by management at my PT job that I need to limit my shift to 5 hours since I am only supposed to work 25 hrs./week according to my contract. That night I told my wife and she seemed to not understand why I couldn't just work the 4 or 5 more hours since it still didn't put me into FT status. We need the money and the extra $100 a week was significant.

    Flash forward to this week, after the 4th of July break we have been busy as hell, so much so that I am being kept on shift for a full 6 hours. It's wearing my ass out, I've got infected splinters in my hands from moving pallets, my legs are beat up from climbing all over freight, and I just realized I've lost 20lbs since the beginning of June even though I'm not exercising or dieting.

    So last night I come home a complete wreck, shirt salty from sweat, warehouse grime all over my face & arms, it's all I can do to grab a sandwich and a beer before I go to bed. My wife was upstairs reading in the tub, heard me come home, finished her bath and came down mad that I didn't come up to say hi. Whatever, I'm tired, I ate, and went to bed.

    Wake up this morning and she asks me if I have a girlfriend on the side... I'm shocked by the question, when the [email protected] do I have time to have some shit on the side? I'm at work for 17 freakin hours a day!

    I'm working my ass to the bone to take care of my family and she has the [email protected] nerve to accuse me of doing something so horrible that it would surely tear the family apart.

    I can't even talk to her, I'm not that confident that I can keep my temper under control. Lack of sleep and malnourishment has compromised my ability to make good decisions.
     
  2. Dust Devil

    Dust Devil Newbie

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    Damn thats a rough one. I would be super pissed too.
     
  3. Aggro

    Aggro Keepin my pimp hand strong!

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    First question. Does SHE work?
     
  4. ConSeaMate

    ConSeaMate Legend in my own mind

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    [TABLE]
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    [TD] One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.[/TD]
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    [TD] Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.[/TD]
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    [TD] In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.[/TD]
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    [TD] Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,[/TD]
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    [TD] other times there were one set of footprints.[/TD]
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    [TD] This bothered me because I noticed[/TD]
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    [TD] that during the low periods of my life,[/TD]
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    [TD] when I was suffering from[/TD]
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    [TD] anguish, sorrow or defeat,[/TD]
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    [TD] I could see only one set of footprints.[/TD]
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    [TD] So I said to the Lord,[/TD]
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    [TD] "You promised me Lord,[/TD]
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    [TD] that if I followed you,[/TD]
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    [TD] you would walk with me always.[/TD]
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    [TD] But I have noticed that during[/TD]
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    [TD] the most trying periods of my life[/TD]
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    [TD] there have only been one[/TD]
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    [TD] set of footprints in the sand.[/TD]
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    [TD] Why, when I needed you most,[/TD]
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    [TD] you have not been there for me?"[/TD]
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    [TD] The Lord replied,[/TD]
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    [TD] "The times when you have[/TD]
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    [TD] seen only one set of footprints,[/TD]
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    [TD] is when I carried you.[/TD]
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  5. Tues

    Tues Not my job...

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    I would get even by posting some nude photos of her on the internet.
     
  6. Raginkjn

    Raginkjn Member

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    I had a wife like that once.
     
  7. gatorfan

    gatorfan Chief

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    Sounds like "I'm at work for 17 freakin hours a day! I'm working my ass to the bone to take care of my family and (you have) she has the [email protected] nerve to accuse me of doing something so horrible that it would surely tear the family apart." would be the perfect and only response I would give (once).
     
  8. smokinwater

    smokinwater "Fire's Out!"

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    My 2cents: stay pissed, but do not blow up! If anything like me- or a bunch of guys I know- a bad outcome can lead to ALOT more hours being worked and losing half your shit! Let's face it, if you're posting on BD, you enjoy the occasional hunting/fishing outing. Your rods/guns could be lost 'cause of a (fully warranted) blow-up. Wives/girlfriends at times/often just don't get it- something you already know. I'm no brainiac on this shit, just trying to offer up support at trying to agree with you. Hang in there, but do stay pissed; MAYBE she'll figure it out. Good luck, and good sanity!
     
  9. @-EZ

    @-EZ Fail, try again.

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    How long have you been married?
     
  10. cioppino

    cioppino Member

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  11. Gil Marlin

    Gil Marlin World Peace? Visualize Using Your Turn Indicator

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    It sounds like your Wife is stressed out by you working such long hours. Maybe she needs a vacation or a new car. Stop being so selfish and think about Her needs... :D
     
  12. Saluki

    Saluki .

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    When you get home tonight grab her by the hair, throw her ass onto the bed, rip her clothes off, and fuck her an hard as you can in the ass with zero foreplay, then grab a sandwich & a beer, take a shower, and go to sleep.

    Continue this routine nightly until she understands there's no way in hell you could be doing this to 2 women a day.


    Your welcome. ;)
     
  13. WaaTooSee

    WaaTooSee Life is Short, Play Now!

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    Me too.. No Joke.
     
  14. 26grumpy

    26grumpy who hooked who

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    My wife has said some really stupid stuff.

    "I do" comes to mind. :)
     
  15. Special Ed

    Special Ed The Four Season Angler

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    Yes. 3 days a week at night and every other weekend.
     
  16. Special Ed

    Special Ed The Four Season Angler

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    Ten years this May.
     
  17. Special Ed

    Special Ed The Four Season Angler

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    If I had that kind of energy after work I'd probably give that a shot.
     
  18. @-EZ

    @-EZ Fail, try again.

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    Complacency kills.
     
  19. BiggestT

    BiggestT I've posted enough I should edit this section

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    Well your past the 7 year itch. I suggest following the Saluki routine.
     
  20. rdrrm8e

    rdrrm8e Fucking Stan

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    I've got plenty of energy. Let me know and I'll come over and knock that out for ya...!
     

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