It’s really not It’s basically a group effort. Suggestions on how to can be helpful and work together. Keep in mind there is no crew if your on a private boat chances are your it. Most of the time the owners got his hands full and could use the extra hand or an eye out for safety issues. I agree 100 % that list is long and ridiculous. We all know THAT guy that brings sunflower seeds spits them on the deck,drinks and eats everything on the boat, sleeps under way and hogs the rail when your stopped.bails the second the boat hits the dock. In a way I envy that guy instead of feeling like you just got used. If you aren’t the person that becomes a part of a private boat that’s ok you may be better suited for party boats where you can pay for that kind of service.